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December 15th, 2008 @ 12:25 am

Categories: SMBlog

Tags: Thomas, Telecom & Utilities, Robert Gerrish

It’s funny how some things really stick in your mind, how another person’s throw away line can have lasting impact. Here are a couple that stick around for me:

“It’s just a snapshot.”

This little pearl of wisdom was delivered by a friend, John-Paul. I’ll wager he doesn’t remember.

It was a Sunday and en route to his place for tea and biscuits, the Gerrish family stopped for a swim. I was horrified to see a man doing serious paperwork on the beach while his kids played in the sand. “How ridiculous!” I recounted to JP.

His response was short and spot on. I knew nothing of this man’s true situation and it was unfair to assume this activity was typical.

“Well I’m glad YOU are alright!”

Please read this one aloud and make it sound sarcastic. That’s how I heard it and rightly so.

In 2000, in the midst of a telephone call with a wonderful man, Thomas Leonard, the shrill noise of a passing ambulance disturbed our conversation.

“Don’t worry, I’m okay!” I quipped, not stopping for a second to think of the poor person the ambulance was on its way to. Thomas’s response has never left me.

“Is that really what you want?”

I can’t recall the name of the female author who uses this phrase on her children whenever they say something self-defeating or negative.

I repeat it to myself whenever my inner critic pops up, swiftly followed by “No I don’t, so bugger off!”

So, have you got some one-liners that stick with you? Post a comment and let’s hear them.

Robert Gerrish is a coach and professional speaker and the founder of Flying Solo (www.flyingsolo.com.au), Australia's online community for solo and micro business owners. His co-authored book, Flying Solo - How to go it alone in business is an Australian business bestseller.
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